Sorry I haven't been keeping you all up to date. It's been a crazy stressful week and Rob and I both came down with a flu so I've been on the couch a lot.

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Update on the email chicky. She had the nerve to write back and here's what she said.. "my married life or what is left of it is known of your business. so why don't you ask him why he tried to flag me over when he was down. how rude it is to read other peoples mail. talk to you soon." (copy & pasted from classmates). This is what I wrote back... "He read your message to me. What a concept for a good marriage eh?? Communication! And if he tried to "flag you down" as you say last summer...maybe he was saying hi?? If you remember him as well as you say, you would remember he's a pretty friendly guy. Doesn't mean he was trying to hook up with you. I have no worries, I know he's happy with me. Oh, and in case you think I'm writing these behind his back...I'm not."

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I asked him about "flagging her down" when we were visiting last summer and he said how could he do that when he wouldn't know what she drove or looked like anymore. He said it has been at least 15 years since he's seen her. Still waiting for a response to that email...if she writes again I'm not going to be nice

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Update on Interview

. I didn't go

. I got up, got dressed, got in the car to deliver a school project that my son couldn't take on the bus...and on my way there I thought to myself..no actually I think I was talking out loud to myself...I DON'T WANT THIS JOB...WHAT AM I DOING??? If I got another job that starts early like this one did, I have to leave before the kids leave for school and would get home after they do. Now I do realize that I will probably get home after them no matter where I work, but I'd like it to be because I the work hours not the drive time! So, I called the recruiter and told him I changed my mind. His reaction almost made me laugh out loud on the phone. I don't think many people turn his offers down.

. He kind of stammered...o..k...well, are you sure you don't want to meet with them and see how they are??? To which I replied I'm sure they're great and if they were 15-20 miles closer I'd love it! Then he thanked me for calling and said he'd keep looking for things closer to my home (sure I bet he will).
I prayed most the the night before for guidance on my decision. I believe I made the right choice because I immediately felt better..and what was suppose to be a rainy day turned out to be a sun shining day!! HMMM

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So, it's back to the drawing board for me. I know I'll find something closer and that alone will make me so much happier than making more money and driving for 2 extra hours a day.
Take care all!
God Bless
Connie